Sunday, July 14, 2013

Sunday Confessions..




I am linking up today with Alex over at Every Day is a New Adventure for Sunday Confessions! I  Hope you enjoy!

I confess...

*Life has been so stressful lately. There has been much room to breath let alone think! I am just my best to get through each day and not be so negative about the things going on. But this summer has been hard to say the least.

* Is it silly for me to confess that I haven't shopped for makeup lately. Well, not like I normally do. I miss it! All my extra money in the summer normally goes towards the kids....not makeup! However, I do have a small Flower haul coming up soon!

* I am just not a neighborly person. I hate.. hate..hate.. going out to check my mail while every neighbor I have sits on their porch and watches. Plus not too long ago the neighbor right beside of us, told me he was having a party and wanted to use our driveway so his friends and family would have a place to park. I shocked the shit out of him because I smiled and said..." You can park any where you want as long as its not in my driveway.. or blocking my driveway. Ha! That guy looked at me so strange and then said thanks! There was no way all his friends was using my driveway. I don't even know the guy. No..No..No..

* I have also been kinda jealous of my moms mini vacations! I feel like I need a vacation more than a quick weekend! Maybe its time to pack up and leave the family behind to go hang out with mom! She blogs too... you can always check her out right here!


* That I am still running around chasing Romeo from beating up the other cats in the house. I don't know what his deal is but I am sick of his shit. The 2 cats I love most in my home hate each other. My patience is running out with him. He's going to get the water bottle more!

*. I had mixed feelings about the George Zimmerman verdict. I feel so badly for both of the families. I think the simple thing he should have done to prevent all of this was to simply STAY IN HIS CAR. Its still a 17 year old child and it breaks my heart.

*. I confess that I seriously wanted to scream when I walked into my bedroom and saw Brittany and Zane scrubbing my new white bedding with a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser. I wanted to beat their butts. I didn't.. and wouldn't but I sure wanted too.  Some makeup got on my bed ( thanks Brittany ) and they were trying to clean it up without me finding out. Thank goodness it didn't damage the bedding. I do appreciate them trying to clean it up but wow.. I flipped out.

* Here's the biggest confession of the week.. probably of the summer. I haven't liked my husband much the past few weeks. That's the honest truth. I love him dearly but there are times when I could just ring his neck. I don't know why we are being so tested this year but I think if we can make it through this summer, we will be able to make it through anything. I don't pretend to have a perfect marriage.. There is no such thing. I think every marraige/relationship has its ups and downs.. good years.. bad years.. and even though it might be hard, its best to ride out the storm. Better days are always around the corner!

xoxo

Happy Sunday

K Jaggers


9 comments:

  1. Kisha...I'm going to share something with you and you can delete this if you like!....but think about it...sit back and watch for a few day and you will see I'm right.....your husband is jealous of the kids! You have been so flat out with moving and trying to get things done...then it's the kids, his and yours. You see them a few time a year and the rest of the time your his! All your attention, he doesn't have to share you...BUT now her you are giving your attention to the kids and trying to balance your own sanity....wether they behave badly or are just perfect angels...it's all for attention......they all want your attention........that's what it's all about...once your normal family is back you will see a difference in his attitude ......her try this... And you will see!......give hubby all your attention make him feel he is #1 and you will see a different man....men don't like to compete for attention...think about it........it is said that if you ask a man if his family where drowning and he could save his wife or his kids, he will say he would save his wife because he could always have other kids, the same question was asked of the mother and she said she would save the kids , because she could always get another husband !!!

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  2. P2... Understanding this will make your life more easy....all hubby needs to know that he is not competing with the kids and that he has your attention.....try it...hubbies can behave like kids when they are jealous and have to share you.........take care...an think about it...its ust normal ...you will be fine.....take care!

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    1. I agree with you.. TOTALLY. Between them all, I just want to pack up and let them have this house.. and I go on a mini vacation! There is only 1 of me.. and I can only do so much. I need a strong loving husband not another kid! In my opinion, husby needs to act like a grown up and stop being so bitchy and grumpy all the time! I expect the kids to be trouble.. not him. But as you said, he has not got a lot of attention this past month and maybe that is hard on him. I will make more of an effort to show him attention and see where that gets me! Thank you for your very loving and honest comments..I love you guys and I love your opinions even if they are not always my own.. so I will not be deleting this comment or the other! Sure wish we were close enough to go grab a cup of coffee together!

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    2. .:) you will do just fine! I know it's hard and sometime it will get harder but that is what life is, best to embrace it and learn.just going to have to learn to spread your love around! Remember you my dear are the neck in the family and hubby is the head but you can turn that head around to your way when ever you want it,,, just slowl

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    3. Sorry having trouble leaving a comment..but I wanted to add ..if I was close I would of loved to have that coffee.

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  3. I'm so much with you on the neighbour thing. I hate taking garbage out because I have to pass the most talkative and nosy neighbours. They just can't take any hints that I'm not interested in boring small talk.

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  4. I think it's creepy when neighbors sits out in their yard and watches people going by especially if they live right next door. it makes getting the mail a lot a weirder.

    hope you have a sweet day.

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  5. I would love for you to share and link up at my weekly TGIF Link Party if you haven't already this week. Your favorite posts, most popular, recent or new! The party is open every Thursday night and closes Wednesday's at midnight. Followed by (Not SO) Wordless Wednesday! http://apeekintomyparadise.blogspot.com/.

    I would be honored if you join us and follow to stay connected Have a wonderful week!

    Hugs, Cathy

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  6. Oh goodness, the past few weeks have been rough for us, too. I swear, I almost killed my husband last night. But you're right - marriage is not a walk in the park. It takes a lot of hard work, and there are good days and bad days for everyone.

    Haha, I love that they tried to use a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser. That's too funny! I'm glad nothing got ruined!

    Thanks for linking up!

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